"We live in a world where losing your phone is more dramatic than losing your virginity"
Um ok but I don’t recall my virginity having 16 GB of memory with all my contacts, music, photos, calendars, and apps or costing over $200.
my phone is an expensive and important material object and not a useless social construct put in place to shame and commodify women
Plus I remember where I lost my virginity.
I used to think
I was overreacting.
now I realize
it was just a
to an abnormal
"It is never too late to turn on the light. Your ability to break an unhealthy habit or turn off an old tape doesn’t depend on how long it has been running; a shift in perspective doesn’t depend on how long you’ve held on to the old view. When you flip the switch in that attic, it doesn’t matter whether its been dark for ten minutes, ten years or ten decades. The light still illuminates the room and banishes the murkiness, letting you see the things you couldn’t see before. Its never too late to take a moment to look"Sharon Salzberg (via purplebuddhaproject)
I hate when boys say “let’s chill”
What the fuck is chill? I’m a grown ass woman I don’t chill. You buying me dinner? I like steak.
like i can date a broke nigga no problem but a broke nigga with no drive and very little ambition? nah.
This reminds me of A Different World:
Dwayne: What kind of husband do you want Whitley?
Whitley: What kind do you think?
Whitley: I would like a man who is educated, enterprising, and Ambitious.
Dwayne: So you wouldnt mind if he was poor?
Whitley: That type of man is never poor…